There
is no Santa Claus. There, I said it. Now
let the mob with the torches and
pitchforks come and get me. Let the
hysterical moms rend me limb from limb while calling me a jerk.
We live in the most insane times where people
that ought to know better don’t. . People who claim to love the truth will either
endorse a lie by their participation or will refuse to rebuke that lie, giving
credence to it by their silence.
There is no Santa Claus. There never was,
there never will be. It is as much a lie as any other lie you could tell,
except it’s a lie that compels you to prop it up with other lies once that lie
is put out there. This skein of
falsehood is done under the pretense of giving children a ‘good childhood’,
because after all, a good childhood is determined by how high your parents can build your false
hopes before they pull back the curtain and reveal that they’ve been lying to
you all these years.
It is never right to lie. Ever.
A relative of mine, when her kids were well
past the age in which she should have stopped lying to them (that age is ‘birth’,
since you asked) perpetuated the lie with elaborate things like snowy footprints on the roof ( in south
Georgia, where it does not snow) and reindeer tracks. All to keep this
elaborate insane seasonal hoax going. It is irrational hatred of your children
to do so. And I, as a minister of the gospel,
and one who claims to stand for the truth, will not help you lie.
I know a married couple where the husband is
anti-Claus, and the wife believes it to be harmless fun. This puts them in an interesting situation where their kids have their
picture taken with a man who they are then told does not exist. See how complicated you can make things? See
how easy it is to have division in your home?
See what sin does?
If someone told their children that God was a
giant asparagus, I would not participate
and respect their family wishes if the topic came up. I cannot possibly know
all the weird beliefs that every family has and I have no respect for lies
glossed over by ‘that’s just their culture’ or ‘that’s just their belief’ or ‘that’s
just their family’. It’s easier just to
tell the truth all the time. I would
tell the truth, and I don’t do this to hurt them, or to undermine you. I do
this because I am committed to the truth.
You should be too.
But in the backwards world we live in, those
of us that ever year mock the big red lie are the jerks. We are the ‘Grinches’
somehow. We are ones trying to rob precious children of their innocence. Us, with our truth not you with your lie. We are the ones lambasted as ‘meanies’ It’s insane.
3 comments:
My children have always known that Santa Claus is just a myth. We taught them that it started with a generous man known as Nikolaos of Myra--that his generosity became legendary and, over time and with some heavy pagan influence, morphed into Santa Claus, complete with flying reindeer and toy-making elves. We don't have a Christmas tree. We focus our Christmas season on helping people in need. We limit gifts to each other to simple items that are often homemade or sometimes don't cost anything at all. The feeling we get from helping others can only be described as a feeling that God loves us.
I have my own reservations about the whole Christmas event, which probably contribute to my hostility regarding the Big Fat Fraud, but I married a delightful woman who adores all Christmas-y ( minus Mr. Claus) so out of my love for her, I tolerate a lot of things this time of year that I consider to be rank foolishness.
I just don't want my children's earliest childhood memory to be discovering I've lied to them and broken their heart.
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